Merge branch '2076-backport-ruby-fips-fix' into 'master'

Make Ruby 3.1 and 3.2 work with OpenSSL 3 in FIPS mode

Closes #2076 and #2077

See merge request https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/build/CNG/-/merge_requests/1999



Merged-by: Jason Plum <jplum@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Jason Plum <jplum@gitlab.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Plum <jplum@gitlab.com>
Co-authored-by: Balasankar "Balu" C <balasankar@gitlab.com>