Update @graphql-eslint-plugin to 3.16.1

See merge request https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/113961



Merged-by: Mark Florian <mflorian@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Mark Florian <mflorian@gitlab.com>
Co-authored-by: Vitaly Slobodin <vslobodin@gitlab.com>